This week marks the start of Resolution’s Good Divorce Week – an opportunity to shine a light on this positive, forward-thinking approach to family law. It’s about showing that there is a better way – one that prioritises compassion, communication, and constructive resolution over confrontation.

The need for a better way

The Family Courts are under immense pressure, with the court system overwhelmed with the number of cases it handling – leading to severe delays. These delays have the knock on effect, often leaving families in limbo until their case comes before the court.

At Berry Smith, we see the real impact these delays, combined with the understandable stress a divorce will naturally bring, have on separating couples – uncertainty, stress, and the emotion of both parties and any family involved. However, we also see that there is a better way; with the right approach, families can reach lasting solutions without the need for lengthy, adversarial proceedings.

Court should always be the last resort. Whilst we acknowledge that Court might be the only way forward, and necessary, in some cases to resolve disputes, many cases can be resolved outside the court process entirely, through open communication and early professional and legal support.

The Resolution approach

As proud members of Resolution, our family lawyers are part of a national community of over 6,500 professionals who believe that a non-confrontational, solution-focused approach leads to better outcomes for everyone involved.

At Berry Smith we make every effort to try and ensure that our work is centred around Resolution’s Code of Practice. The Code sets out the principles that guide how we help clients navigate separation. The Code promotes a constructive approach, encouraging solicitors to:

· Avoid inflammatory language that can heighten tensions or worsen conflict.

· Put the best interests of children first, ensuring their emotional and practical needs are central to all discussions and decisions.

· Act with honesty, integrity, and objectivity, providing balanced advice even when emotions run high.

· Encourage communication and collaboration between separating partners wherever possible.

· Help clients understand the long-term impact – emotional, financial, and practical – of the decisions they make.

· Focus on solutions, not blame, to support families in finding a positive way forward.

Whether we are helping clients negotiate financial settlements, agree child arrangements, or explore mediation, the aim is always to minimise conflict and promote understanding.

Why it matters

Divorce and separation are deeply personal experiences, but they don’t have to be combative or destructive. By following the Resolution Code, our solicitors help clients stay focused on practical solutions that allow both parties to move on quicker that if they are embroiled in court proceedings.

Supporting Good Divorce Week

As members of Resolution, we’re proud to support Good Divorce Week 2025 and to uphold the values that help families find stability, clarity, and support during one of life’s most challenging times.

If you’re facing a separation or would like to understand the options available to you, our experienced Family Law team is here to guide and support you every step of the way. If you would like to discuss anything in the article or separation in general please speak to one of our family law specialists and contact us on 01656 645525 or email family@berrysmith.com.